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Me and my friend were walking up to her house, we got round the corner near the lampost and we were like 20 metres away from her house. As we got round the corner there was a tall white van parked and a man standing there with his door open, I saw his arm moving so i looked down to see him wanking!! It was groose and he smerk at us.
I told my friend and she looked down to quickly we walked up to her house, when outside the house she shouted "MUM!!" as we climbed over her fence, he looked up at us quickly jumped in his van and drove off at the speed of light. He now knows where she lives and she cant sleep at night. Her mum didnt believe us and we told everyone in the neighbour hood to keep an eye out.

Im scared for life when anyone metions the words, wanking, penis, white van. I hate it so much i went white as a ghost when i saw him doing it.

I was shaking all day we tried to get her mum to report it to the police but she said "He might have just been goin for a piss" but i know he wasnt or piss would be comeing out of his dick.. not spunk. and he wouldnt exactly point it right at us..

How can my friend get over the fact that he knows where she lives?

sorry for it being so long lush me x

What the man was doing was a serious criminal offence and I am at a loss as to how a parent can ignore their child being subjected to that. You know you don't have to wait for any one else to report this to the police and it doesn't matter if your friends mam doesn't want it reporting - he was committing a crime and you where the victims, you need to report it. I'm not saying you could report it or you should report it I'm saying you need to report it, you must report it. This man is the sort of person society needs protecting from and what we're talking about is the safety of you and others. Having said that you can reassure your friend that he's very unlikely to be back now. Just ask her to make sure she doesn't go out far alone. Talking to the police about this is also likely to help put her mind at rest. Also - although it may not seem so important right now, i think it is - your friend needs to sit down with her mom and find out why she wouldn't take this seriously and how that made her feel. Buy for now Derfel xx

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