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i really am so ready for sex and my bf and i already have it all planned out...the thing is, im not very self-confident when it comes to my body. my legs are slim, which all my friends envy, but i feel so wierd! my hands get clamy ALL the time...is there anything i can do about that? and finally, i am really self-consious about the hair on my body...like on my lower back, a tiny bit around my belly, and 'downstairs'. i dont want to shave these regions, but im just worried about what he'll think...and i dont want to be all high-maintenance about my body, but i dont know what im supposed to do! please help

I think you should let him know your fears, but if you aren't ready fro him to knwo it's you start out by playing a game. You start naming hypathetical situations like would you ever have sex with a girl that is hairy,ugly,etc (non-explaining you of course) and then you say what if they had hair just........(name the spots) and then you ask him if he'd have sex or make fun of a girl who(and explain your situation) and see how he takes it. The trick is to start off the game with a description of something that's really not you and that way he knows the things you are listing aren't anything to do with you and then when he is on a roel answering the questions you throw your situation in there and you will know exactly what he thinks. But after you ask about your situation you ask a few more questions because that way don't seem obvious. Hope it helps

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(Rating: 5) good idea!
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