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my best friend that i love (not that kinda way but like a sister) anyways she loves her bf and he loves her to but he is getting tired of her bullshit she started crying because he need some space and told her that. then when eh went past her at lunch he didnt say hi and she broke down crying. the other day she took pictures with one of her friends and she was in back and all u can see is her face and her bf didnt saything good about her because he could see anything except her face and she got mad about that. i have talked to her bf before and he told me that he dont really love her and all this other shit i have tryed tellin her this but she dont believe me so i dropped, but today i couldnt take her cryin so i topld her bf about it and he called her a drama queen and after he went and talked to her bc she was made bc she hate giving him space so he told her she dont have to. but i dont know what to do she is always like this and she cant give him space and i dont knwo what to do i mean she basically stalks the guy? plz helpe me thanks a lot!
anonymous -
She's a typical drama queen. What I'd suggest is you just straight out lay the facts out with her and talk to her about it. She needs to be confronted about it sooner or later, and besides, you're just a caring friend who's trying to look out for her. Tell her that her unacceptable behavior is driving people away from her out of annoyance. If she wants a serious relationship with a guy, she's gotta be serious herself and really grow up.
Most likely she is just insecure and thinks that everything has to be about her. If someone acts a certain way, she's going to think they're doing it cuz they don't like her or she did something wrong.
Be supportive and a friend to help her get through this, but first she's gotta realize that her over-dramatization is really affecting her life.
One of my friend's girlfriend was exactly like this. It got so bad that she cries over everything and almost lost her job at work. I mean, she assumes so many things about her boyfriend without knowing the real truth. Basically the problem is communication and ignorance.
Good luck.
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thanks soo much i will talk to her about it
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