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Hi everyone, I'm 14/f and I was j/w if it would be bad if I eventually went out with a 19 year old guy. I'm going to be 15 in May. I've been talking to this guy for a year now. He seems really really sweet, but we haven't met yet. I just feel like I'm starting to like him now. We were going to go see a movie one time, but we didn't end up going because it was really late. I decided not to go. He always used to say I'm too young and everything, so he was afraid to meet me, but then all of a sudden that one time he was going to go somewhere with me. He doesn't seem to care about my age all that much now. I'm not sure if he likes me or not, but I'm just saying if we met and everything, would it be wrong for me to be going out with a 19 year old? In my opinion, it's not that bad. I know we could both get in trouble, but he's really sweet. I've talked to a lot of people that I don't know on the internet, and he doesn't seem like one of those guys that only cares about sex. He never tries to talk about it with me like other gross guys do. I was also wondering how I could maybe hint to him when I'm talking to him on the internet again that I like him. I'll probably be talking to him tomorrow night. If we ever met also, what are some suggestions as to where we could meet and hang out since it'll be the first time. If anyone can, please answer! I just want a few suggestions. I'm soo very sorry that this question is so long. And I also know that you'll probably tell me it's a big age difference, but age shouldn't matter if you really like someone right? You could always keep the relationship a secret, and not do anything illegal with that person until your old enough and you know you won't get in trouble. If your nice when you answer, and you give good advice I'll rate you a 5!!!! Thank you so much again, and sorry about the length. :-) (link)
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Okay, I know not to lecture people, because I personally HATE being lectured. I do want to suggest some stuff to you first. The internet can be dangerous, so before you plan to meet ANYWHERE, be sure that he's not some 50 year old asshole that is going to rape you or something. Also, if you do end up going out with him, be sure to keep it a secret because that's illegal. The age difference is too big of a gap, and you're still under 18, so you're a minor. Be very careful with this guy and don't do something that you will regret later. If after you meet him and become acquainted with him better you find yourself believing that he's not a good influence or that you don't think you should trust him with you or something, talk to him about it or break up with him. The last thing you want is to have sex with him and get pregnant, then leave your parents to find out 1. you met him over the internet, and 2. he's 19 years old. If you need more advice my s/n is xobubblegum25xo. hope i helped!
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