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An average guy, willing to answer questions. I am!
Member Since: March 31, 2005
Answers: 29
Last Update: April 27, 2005
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Hey, okay i'm very attracted to my best friend. I would like to go out with her.Were both girls and i'm 14 and she's 13. She said a few times it would be easy if she could be with me and that i understand and care for her better than anyone. We have experimented 3 times and we loved it just being with each other being close and intimate. I want to tell her how i feel but i get more scared when i get infront of her face. I hate rejection! It's not that i've been rejected by my friends or guys or anything i just hate it. I even feel bad and low when i call someone and they can't talk or when i ask her if she can come over. I end up getting this pity look like she's doing me a favor if she went to my house. I hate it because i make good time to be over their at her house and she can't because of her mom and her little sister. I'm very afraid and when i wanted to ask her today i just looked at her like i was doing the worst sin in the world. I feel dirty when i wanted to tell her how i felt today. I just wanna keep it a secret that i have feelings for her so i can not have rejection and still have her as close to me as we are now. I just feel like a complete loser for asking a girl to be with me. I want her to do that and then i would fall into her arms and we'd feel the love between each other and i wouldn'r feel like a loser. (link)
Why do you fear Rejection? If you know she likes you then go for it, why not? And if you're bisexual, guys love 'em!


Rating: 5
I fear rejection becuase i give a lot physically and emotionally so i sort of would sometimes like something back. I feel like i'm being ditched and not wanted when someone rejects me. I put myself way out there and they just kick me back! Thanks anyway!




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