Member Since: March 22, 2005
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Last Update: April 4, 2005
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*sorry this is so long but i really need help!* okay so my best friend has been with this one guy *bob for like 5 months. they never stop fitin n im always in b/w it! c *bob hated me for the longest time and he wud always start fites with my friend and tell her how she shudnt be friends with me... well she didnt listen but she also never stuck up for me! but dont worry im over that now! but just recently they broke up and fought every day since and then yesterday they got back together and broke up last nite. the problem is me and *bob put all of our feelings of hate aside and now we are friends! im really glad we dont fight anymore but now its causing problems with my friend! she always wanted us to be friends but now wenever we talk she usually comes up in the convo bc *bob still loves her! i feel really bad and idk wat to do! so my friend says she hates him and he makes her sick and stuff... but she still talks to him! (??idk y??) so now hes askin me to tell her that hes sorry and all this stuff and shes asking me wat to do! ive been in b/w all of their fites for 5 months and i really dont want to be involved anymore! i tried to tell my friend this but she doesnt listen and juss got mad at me... so my question is... do i help her? or do i try to stay out of it? please help me! (link)
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well you can help her by staying out of it. Tell them both you refuse to talk about one to the other, that they have to talk to each other. You are not a messenger. This will probly make one of them mad at you, but hey if they refuse to be your friend becuase you don't want to be in the middle of their silly fights then you don't need either one of them as freinds. It sucks but somtimes you just have to put your foot down and say "no"!
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thanks alot its great advice but this girl is my best friend and i cant just stop being friends with her
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