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Hey everybody like I said I'm a beach girl! Born and bred in Seaside New Jersey, with about two generations of lineage going back!
I got passed away from home to home my entire life (Seaside, Toms River, Ortley) luckily always near Seaside but my life is utter turmoil. My parents bred young and thus poor, divorced when I was five; and my mother remarried.
I have lots of friends that I love and am grateful for, socially I am very outgoing, intellectually I'm an iron fist so ask me anything!
Hmmm... oh yeah one more thing- love my music and poetry and writing and reading and history and science and psychology ~pants~ philosophy... etc.. I Like smart people stuff, to be more "bite sized"

~cHiLL~

E-mail: cleanfreakfromhell@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Seaside New Jersey
Occupation: student/work as badge gurl in summer
Age: 15
AIM: beachbtch5
Yahoo: cleanfreakfromhell
Member Since: March 6, 2005
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Last Update: June 16, 2005
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How come everyone thinks im mean? all i do is tell the truth. I gues they just cant handle the truth. Do you guys appreciate it when people tell you the truth or stupid lies? I would rather know the truth not stupid lies people tell me to feel better gosh.

Whats your opinion
Ya_gots_to_luv_me :) (link)
Hrrpmphh well yes people aren't used to the truth, the truth hurts sometimes. Yes there are times when you need to use extensions of the truth to get your way or to kiss up for that same reason mentioned, but when a friend truly needs advice it is most valuable to him or her if you can tell them like it is so they can get the honest facts and therefore be able to handle their situation more thoroughly and affectively. By downsizing a situation to make yourself feel better you only put off trying to take care of it. You know? You're not mean. in the world we live in honesty, even brutal honesty, is a rare and valuable thing... don't give it up!


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I am back on the site and wanted to go back and thank people who answered my questions when I was younger. THANK YOU!




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