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So, I'm a sixteen year old girl, and I live in Ontario, Canada. I LOVE giving out advice. All my friends come to me for advice because:
-I tell them the whole truth and nothing but the truth.
-I don't sugarcoat things. If your relationship is doomed, I'll tell you. I won't say "just talk to him" or stuff like that.
-I don't judge. Well, I do judge a little bit, but who doesn't. But, you can tell me you just had sex with 309573458346934584357 different people, and I'll still love you none the less.
-I'm just a normal person, and I probably go through the same everyday crap that the rest of you go through.
So yeah, feel free to drop me a line. As far as I know, I've never screwed someone over with my advice!

advice

I'm 15 years old and I've never had a boyfriend. Pathetic, I know. The main problem people keep telling me is that when i like a guy i tend to be shy around him. I like this one guy right now and he knows i like him thanks to one of my big mouth friends. We've talked only maybe twice before he found out i liked him but thats the only time we've ever talked. When i see him in the halls he looks at me...what does that mean? How can i get him to like me without coming on to him as a stalker?

Believe me, you're not pathetic, I'm sixteen and still haven't had a boyfriend, and that's okay, because if I did have a boyfriend in the past, he probably would have been a complete prick.

He probably looks at you in the halls because he knows you like him, and he's probably thinking "dayum, why won't she talk to me and ask me out?" I think you should just straight out do it, get to know him a bit, and then ask him out.

Unless of course he's really quiet and shy. Just start saying hi and smiling, and then talk to him online and whatnot. Shy guys are harder to get things started with, but they seem like they'd be worth it.

Good luck!

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