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Q: My boyfriend and I have been together for two and half years, and we are both eighteen. We are both very different from one another. I'm asian, I grew up with strict parents, I don't party much, or go out much. I like to do things around the house to keep me busy, like reading and writing. Don't get me wrong, I'm not boring and I know how to have fun, and I'm allowed to do anything that I want. Whenever I do go out, I'm pretty much the life of the party. Him, on the other hand, he is black, his parents were never really strict on him growing up.. he parties a lot and likes to go out all the time. He gets mad, or annoyed at me because I'm not the type to party and go all out. I get mad and annoyed at him when he parties too much. We both love each other, but it seems like that is what we mostly argue about nowadays. I'm not going to change my ways to satisfy him, and he isn't going to either. We talk about it, but even still, nothings going to change. How can I go about if an argument starts again? It just annoys me when he says to me that I don't know how to have fun, or that I'm boring. We both just have different definitions on the word fun. Any advice will be nice. Thanks.
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It shouldn't matter whether you're asian or black or white or green or purple or blue. Fact of the matter is that your boyfriend is still in party mode. No way around it. Don't expect him to even consider settling down until well until his mid-to-late 20s. I'm asian and 28 and I STILL party hard. Marriage is not a consideration for me right now and will not continue to do so till I'm at least 30. Take that into perspective. I doubt that he's gonna settle down anytime soon so maybe you should find someone who has more similar interests. You sound like 2 completely opposite people. Find someone who is more compatible with your interests. While the old adage 'opposites attract' is true, very few people hear the 2nd half of that adage 'but hardly stay together'.
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Like my name says, g'head make my day; ask me anything. I'll answer the boring (Is the sky blue?) to the bizarre (should I bring a glow-in-the-dark cock ring to the bukkake party?). I only have one request: if you want a serious answer, please do so using (S) as an indicator. Otherwise, I will decide whether or not to apply my witticism (which may not necessarily be witty) to yon inquiry.
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Gender: Male Location: Chicago Occupation: Professor of Pimpology Age: 28 Member Since: March 29, 2005 Answers: 39 Last Update: May 4, 2005 Visitors: 3699
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