My name is Allee and i am 13 years old. Enough said. If you have any problems, questions, or conserns that might be able to be answered by a 13 year old, feel free to ask. Also know that i am not great at this, but i definetly do try my best. TrY mE..
Gender: Female
Location: NJ
Occupation: Student
Age: 13
Member Since: March 26, 2005
Answers: 11
Last Update: April 17, 2005
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My boyfriend and I have been together for two and half years, and we are both eighteen. We are both very different from one another. I'm asian, I grew up with strict parents, I don't party much, or go out much. I like to do things around the house to keep me busy, like reading and writing. Don't get me wrong, I'm not boring and I know how to have fun, and I'm allowed to do anything that I want. Whenever I do go out, I'm pretty much the life of the party. Him, on the other hand, he is black, his parents were never really strict on him growing up.. he parties a lot and likes to go out all the time. He gets mad, or annoyed at me because I'm not the type to party and go all out. I get mad and annoyed at him when he parties too much. We both love each other, but it seems like that is what we mostly argue about nowadays. I'm not going to change my ways to satisfy him, and he isn't going to either. We talk about it, but even still, nothings going to change. How can I go about if an argument starts again? It just annoys me when he says to me that I don't know how to have fun, or that I'm boring. We both just have different definitions on the word fun. Any advice will be nice. Thanks.
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Well, if you both really love eachother, how about you try eachother's ways of life sometimes. like one night go and party for him, and one night ask him if you guys can have dinner or something together and just talk it out. Also, it is very hard if your VERY different, but dont get me wrong, different can be the best of things sometimes, but i think your idea of different is way easier than some other ways. I think if you sit down together and disgus it, it might go well if you agree to do both ways or you lives. sorry if you dont like my advice, but i definetly tried. GOOD LUCK with him! xoxo
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