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hey.. i have a friend and shes really sweet and all but my boyfriend was talking about her earlier this week.. im one of those girls that everyone comes to for problems and everyone tells me everything but this time what he said about my friend just got to me so much and thats weird because i can always keep secrets. lets just say that him and her when out before and he think she still likes him and he said "i bet she made up that kid so it will make me want her" i dont get that haha.. and he also said "the only reason she wants you to go out with him instead of me is because she wants me" and those two things that he said really got to me.. now dont get me wrong i really love him.. okay well i told my friend what he said because she slept at my house last night.. and she was like I HATE HIM OMG!! and stuff and im like dont tell him pleaseee. and shes ilke i wont.. but something tells me she will.. and if she does then that could ruin my friendship with her and me and my boyfriends relationship... i already know i ruined their friendship :'( .. i feel so bad and i dont know what to do.. please help

this isnt your fault. they obviously have issues from back when they were together. you need to let them work it out themselves and try not to interfeir. if it gets involved with your relationship with your boyfriend or your friend then try talking to them and telling them that you dont want to be rude but you cant get in the middle because its hurting the relationship between the 2 of you. (whether it be you and your friend or you and your boyfriend) i hope i helped and good luck!

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