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Okay. I like this guy and I know he likes me. The problem is, in school and on AIM he's always talking to this one other girl. (She has a boyfriend, soo..I know they can't go out) But it always makes me mood so mad, and I just hate him
the rest of the day. He can always tell when I'm mad, and asks "What's wrong?" and stuff, and I never know how to answer. I don't want him to think I'm like..a baby or something for feeling that way, so I never actually tell him. But, like, for instance. If it's a Saturday and we're at home talking on the computer, the other girl will put up an away message with something he said..and I realize that they're having such a more fun/interesting convo then we are. He makes himself be more fun when he talks to her, and that just upsets me so much. I don't know what to do, because a lot of days he's just the best..and we have so much fun, but whenever she's around I know it's gonna be a bad day.

okay so if this guy really likes you he should be great around you and try to make you feel great. i think he likes this other girl to and he tells you he likes you because he does but if she doesnt want him then second best is always great. you shouldnt let him treat you like you're second best. talk to him about it and just ask him straight out if he likes this other girl and not you anymore. if he doesnt answer and keeps making you feel this way then he's not worth it. no girl should ever feel second best. good luck!

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(Rating: 5) Omg, thank you so much! That's exactly what I thought he might be doing..thanks SO much!
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