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ok so ive been on and off with my boyfreind for a year and a half now, and he just asked me back out a few days ago...but i still have other guys i like from wen we werent going out. And some of my old boyfreinds are coming back into my life now..not sure y..i mean i love my boyfreind right now, but i dont get to see him all the time, and i am a reallllllly bad flirt. I dont want to cheat on him, but i dont wanna turn down all these other guys...im too nice to do that. I really wanna be with my boyfreind but i feel like i'll b with him for the rest of my life, so i kinda want time away from him for now...i odnt mean to sound like a slut, cuz it wouldnt be like that, i just want to be able to hang out with other guys, but my boyfreind doesnt like that and gets really jealous, wat should i do?

you are not a slut in any way. its your boyfriends fault for being jealous. sit him down and tell him that you can have friends and he cant stop you. if he doesnt like that then thats too bad. i know you love him but you also do want some time apart. if he really loves you he'll hide his jealousy and you will be able to have all the guy friends that you want. good luck!

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