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I recently found out that my boyfriend drinks. Every fiber of my bones is completely and utterly against drinking and alcohol. I hate it like you would not believe. My dad was an alcoholic and my best friend died from drinking and driving a few years ago.
I love him. I really do. I care about him and beg him not to drink. But he tells me he knows his limits. He says he doesnt get drunk just "tipsy". The other night he went out with a few of his friends and they played drinking games. He didnt tell me about it but his friend did.
I feel lied to. I feel betrayed. I know it's his life and he can do as he pleases. I dont want him to think Im trying to control him. But I dont want him to die either.
Help me. Should I leave? Should I stay? How can I look past his drinking habits? (link)
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It is a hard situation you are in. I know that you may not agree with what he is doing but it is his choice. Let him know the reasons why you want him not to drink. Tell him that you are not trying to control him and that it is his choice in the end. Tell him your worries and just ask him to at least do less drinking. That is all you can really do. Hope I helped
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