Hi, I'm really happy that i found this site. I love to share my experiences, the good and the bad, with other people in hopes of helping them. Also like having an unbiased opinion to help out with my own day to day dilemas. This is great, I hope any advice i can give will help somebody else out there. I've been through alot in the past 4 years, relationship wise, and i have learned alot about me, men and communication. I've done alot of growing and i seem to be the go to girl with my friends when it comes to their relationships. Hope i can help! Thankyou, singlemom
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Ok... I was in a porno Video cause i needed money to go to a school trip in France..! But now All of the guys at my school .. Are porno freaks.!! and all they want is sex from me..! i dont want to give sex to them cause i only did that 1 time to get money for a trip and all the girls think im a slutty ass bitch.. and im not i was always the nice girl and now after one mistake i am called a slut! All the guys try to talk me into sex but i dont want to.. when i go on a date i always get forced to hhave sex. its really annoying and bad.. I hate it and i dont even think i want to go on this trip. after all thats happening.. One of my friends told me that She over heard her boyfriend and his friend saying that this kid that goes to our school may rape me.. Im scared and i dont want to start more drama .. Not only that but the tape was sold on the internet. Im doomed for life. What do i do to repair my reputaion and stay away from getting raped..
any advice is apperciated..
Ps- IM NOT A SLUT! (link)
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Dear Not A Slut, You march your way down to the police station and tell them exactly what is going on. People make mistakes, i've made my share and trust me, it always works out in the end. You have to face this dead on. I'm being totally serious, tell the police. The issue right now is not your reputation and what people think of you, you could get raped. Stop it now before it happens, i'm begging you. Tell your parents also, you need that support around you. Tell them why you did it. I'm a mom, and no matter what my daughter ever does, i will always love her and get her through anything. Let me know, Luann
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Thank you so much you really helped me with that .. Its not going to well.. But it got alittle better no one raped me Thank god and im with a Great group of friends my parents dont know.. and its going to stay like that.!!!!
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