Depending on the day depends on the type of answer you will get from me. Most of the time i give what i would do if i were in your shoes. That means it could be harsh and stereotypical or nice and easy to understand. i love giving advice so ask away. challenge me a bit and you will get a good answer out of me. i have played the harp for 7 years and love it to this day. God bless
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ok me and this guy have been going out for about 4 months, im 14, female, and i luv him soo much! We have made-out and been to each others houses, also hes looked down my shirt and lil things nuthing totally taking clothes off or anything, i definately dont want to have sex because im a christian and ive made that promise so what should we do if i want more than just making out? (link)
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i have been in a similar situation just a few years older. i know it is hard to control our hromones and emotions. It is as if what the Bible says and what the 'world' says conflicts. It is hard to say it and keep to what the Bible says. The bible says no sexual activity before marriage and to me that means nothing that implies sexual activity. If your boyfriend loves you he will understand your beliefs and respect whatever decision you make. If I were you I would end it at making out. Plus you can have fun doing other things. Go to places around where you live that are fun. Like around where I live we have indoor rockclimbing, laser fighting, paintaball warzone, and other places. Relationships should bot be based on physical asspects. instead it should be based on your personalities. If it is based on your personalities and beliefs than he will understand and you will only strengthen in your belief. Hope I helped!! Write me anytime with any other issue!!
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thanks so much you were really really helpful!
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