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Gender: Female
Location: London, England
Occupation: Psychology Student
Age: 19
Member Since: March 16, 2005
Answers: 3
Last Update: March 16, 2005
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My cousin's name is Nicole-she's on the left of the picture on my site. Don't get me wrong, I love her and I even wish I was like her at times. But everytime I'm around her, I feel like she's better than me and that I can't even compare to her. We always get annoyed of eachother after about one hour. I don't know what I'm doing wrong to annoy her. Everytime we get in an argument, I'm the one that always gets hurt. I think it's mainly because I'm younger and she always has better comebacks. What should I do when this happens? What can I do to prevent the arguments. (link)
Invite Nicole around, go to hers or go out to dinner where it's only you and her. Then talk to her she may not see a problem but you do. Tell her how you feel and ask her how she feels about the situation then together see if you can come up with a solution. If you spend alot of time with each other maybe you should cut back on the amount of time you spend with each other. Remember your family so you'll always have a connection and you will always get a bit irritated with eachother i'm sure at times it's her that annoys you! But talk to her and see if the situation can be resolved if you leave it it may get worse.


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