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I Have a love for my friends that is unexplainable. I love playing softball* Singing* Flirting* Dancing* Meeting New people* Hangin out with friends*Church Camp and just about anything else-O YEA FOOOOODDD!!!!! Im a baller,Christain,Friend,Sister(to an 11 yr old lil bro) Daugther

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hi . ok well here it goes. im 14 and i have been going out with this guy named anthony , he's 16. we have been going out for a month and ive practically fallen in love with him . and he's like in love with me . well he is on probation for burglary and he told me he is not that kind of person anymore . and i said to him that if you mess up then i cant be with you. he understood and said ok. well before he met me he's done some crazy things. one of them is drugs. pot , coke , x , etc. well i told him i dont want him doing ANY of that because i hate drugs and a lot of my friends have gotten hurt and i love him to much to see that happen to him. so last night we were on the phone and we were watching cops and they did sum drug bust. and it was coke . and he's like "yea i did that a couple days ago". i got really pissed and yelled and screamed and started crying. and like he promised me he would never do that and he says he loves me and would do anything for me , but my relationship feels like a big lie. i really need some help or someone normal to talk to because my friends are all messed up to like that. im not that kind of person. he said "i have not found anyone yet like me" and im like "well if yout hought i was that kind of person , then your wrong." he said a lot more but theres to much to type. someone IM me at xIxMissthugxIx@aol.com . someone please help me with this.

Ok, I completly and totally agree with your being upset. If he loves you, which a month is not very long and love is something that takes time and commitment...but if he wants a future with you, hes goin to have to prove it...and your going to have to be strong by putn your foot down and making him see that you deserve to be treated right, and you wont settle for his lies....If he really loves you, he'll do it all right and if not..then girl find you someone that will..Theyr out there! Good Luck-CCHS11

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(Rating: 5) thank u soo much. i hope he still loves me . cuz i reallly love this guy and i know he's bad but i know he is soo much more then that. i guess its time for a break. my parents found out bout this to!

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