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What else can I say other than my name and age? I don't have much to say.

I guess I shall mention that I tend to fall into extremely depressive spells and just as easily fall out of them. I've lost most joy in life and have found that the only lasting joy is helping others. So thus you have it.
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Age: 13
Member Since: March 12, 2005
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Ok here goes, I am an advice giver and everything but I can't fix this problem. I go to a school where there is a whole bunch of guys. I have a major crush on one of them but every time I make a move on a guy I like, I get these kinds of remarks such as "You should jump off a bridge and save yourelf the embarassment of actually having a love life". Remarks like these are said to me everyday and somehow they have etched themselves into my head and they won't go away. Now it seems like the only way to get rid of them is to commit suicide. I have thought about it many times but I want help. Please answer back. I don't know how much more of these remarks I can stand. (link)
People who are like that are low-lifes without any reason to be alive. It's hard, but you should try to ignore them. Defend yourself and get your friends to defend you to. If your friends won't, find friends who will.

Now, onto a serious matter. If you are seriously considering suicide you should consult someone. A school counsellor, a family member, a doctor or another adult or just someone who can get you the help you need. Suicide is a serious matter and even the slightest mention of it should be taken serious.
When the matter has gotten to the point of suicide, the problem should be taken to a proffesional rather than a group of people online.
I don't want to write another 5 paragraph lecture on this like I normally do, because I'm sure you know most of this by now. Suicide is not the solution, it is not the way out. Suicide is the beginning of an even worse situation.

I wish you the best of luck with this situation and hope that you find the solutions that are so much better than suicide.
~MissKassie


Rating: 5
Thanks. I put commiting suicide out of my mind but that doesn't stop how it makes me feel




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