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ok I finally met this kid who ive been talking to on the internet.. and im so confused with the way I feel about him. Its like I couldnt decide whether I liked him or not. Im basically preppy girl, and hes a punk rock (dude) kind of guy. Hes so different than the guys I hang around, and I cant decide if its good or bad. I know him and my guy friends wouldnt get along, and I dont know what to do or how to feel. I'm so confused. Any help?.. I rate :-)
You have to decide whether your attraction to him is stronger than your desire to stay in your comfort zone. Something new to the mix is always interesting, and if you do decide to date, there's no rule that says your friends automatically have to become his friends. As long as he's good to you and isn't a negative influence on you, then there doesn't have to be a problem.
If your friends really don't like him for any other reason than the fact that he's a punk rocker, then you need to talk to your friends. Remind them that if they really cared, they would keep an open mind about the guy and not judge a book by it's cover.
Cheers!
(Rating: 5) thanks.. thats really good :-P