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I have this boyfriend and I need some serious advice. I love him do not get me wrong on what i am about to say. He is an alcoholic. It didn't bother me at first. He used to let me do what i wanted when i wanted and now it's like i have to beg and plead with him to do what i want to do. He expects me to be at his house as soon as i get off work. If i'm not he's mad and we fight. Not all the time but..the majority. He gives me a time to be home and i am . When i tell him a time he says he will do as he pleases.
sometimes he is real mean to me. I cry cause it hurts me. somdays it's like he doesn't want to be together anymore. So then i told him if you want me to leave i will leave. I will get my shit and never come back. Then he pleaded with me . he said no. I love you please don't leave. We play around and sometimes he plays to rough. It's like he doesn't care. I let him go to girls house or even be alone with a girl. But..if i do the same he accuses me of cheating.
He has only hitt me twice out of anger. I buy his cigs,his beer and any thing else he wants.Sometimes he calls me mean names and I've asked him not to. It feels somtimes like he wants hiss cake and he wants to eat it to. Please help me. I don't know what to do anymore. (link)
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you said,
"He has only hitt me twice out of anger."
Let's rephrase - "He has hit me twice."
There is no 'only' and no excuses. You have a damn compelling reason to get him out of your life. He's abusive, controlling and an addict. You deserve better. People who love each other do not do the things that he does to you. He doesn't love you, but he doesn't want to lose you because then who would be his errand runner and punching bag?
You can not change him, you don't have that power. Get out of this relationship now.
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thanks so much.you've helped me realized things more. you're so right!
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