About mylinhthan
[x][edit] - Since being on Advicenators there have been a lot of repetitive questions and innane ones at that. Because of this, I will not be answering as many questions as I had before. To put it simply, some people need to think for themselves. To learn things in life we have to fall down from our hardships, learn from them, and get to our feet again. People aren't just going to spoonfeed you on how to live your life.
To conclude, I'm a level-minded columnist who's not likely to judge. Although I may not understand some situations due to lack of experience, I am an understanding person and will do all I can to help. To people who are "not the brightest crayon in the box", I may appear blunt and brutally honest. Stupid questions deserve stupid answers.
And yes, stupid questions DO exist.
Ask Me For Advice
View Feedback
Make Favorite Columnist
Gender: Female
Location: Colorado
Occupation: Student
Age: 18
Member Since: February 22, 2005
Answers: 363
Last Update: December 11, 2009
Visitors: 23923
Advicenators.com
|
|
|
i hear constantly about 14 year olds having sex... this is scary. what has the world come to? one day people will be having sex at 8 and then people will finally realise there is a problem. i dont see why 14 year olds have sex when they are so young... at 14 i was like, gross, why have sex? i'm 17 now and i am a virgin... i am proud of that and i like it coz guys respect me and i know a guy isn't going out with me for sex. what i want to know is why do girls lose that respect at such a young age? and how young were people when they lost their virginity???
- confused
confused -
I definitely agree with you. It's kinda funny cuz a lot of those sexually active teeny boppers are the ones constantly asking questions on advicenators, eh? It's so sad.
There are a variety of reasons why they could be losing their virginity at such a young age. It could be that the media is constantly "sexualizing" television, music, and magazines. Nowadays it's common for "tweens" to wear a lot of makeup, dress sexy, and unfortunately get pressured into having sex. But also it could be peer pressure, "love", or just the desire to be an adult. The list is endless.
When I was that age, sex wasn't common, but sexual play was. As for your question on the age I lost my virginity, it was a few days before my 17th birthday. I know I was young still, and if you believe me or not, "it just happened." It wasn't planned, it just happened. Even so, I don't regret my decision because me and my boyfriend have been together for nearly a year when it had happened and are still together today (2.5+ years). In a sense it has strengthened our relationship because we felt we loved each other enough to share what's most personal with each other. Don't get the wrong impression that I was naive, "believing" I was in love. We talked about it for months before anything had happened, that's how much it meant to us.
Whoa I wrote a lot, well I hope this helps!
[view]
(Rating: 5)
Good for you. i'm glad it worked for you!
| |
