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Ok. i have this friend and we both like the same guy. i mean he's a really really nice guy and he's not fast paced and he'll give the girl the time she needs. and he's popular so i guess i kind of have two questions.
Question 1). Would it be totally horrible for me to do something about my feelings, because i know for a fact that the guy doesn't like her he told me. but if things worked out and she got mad i'd feel horrible but the thing is she'd do it to me in a heart beat, even if it hurt me ...
Question 2). I'm not sure what i should do. because if i decide to talk to him and let him now how i feel theres a chance he'll laugh in my face. because hes popular and im not really. im not sure if i should give it a try, because he seems like he could possibly be interested in me, he's flirting and acts interested, but that could then again just be how he is .. (link)
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1) if you know she would do it back to you, i wouldn't lose sleep over it. tell her though, ask her how she feels about it, and pay attention to her response. if she says she wouldn't mind, that doesn't mean its true.
2) just go for it. really. the WORST he can do is say no, right? and what have you got to lose- NOTHING! you can also say something like, "i was wondering if maybe we could take it a step further than friends. if it wouldnt work out or you arent interested, thats okay, i still want to be friends and stuff, but maybe...?" that would start a probably very beneficial conversation.
:) hope i helped.
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thanks, that helped alot. i think im gonna talk to both of them :)
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