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I'm an eighteen year old female studying art and French in college. (That's my intro ;-p)
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When it comes to dating and what-not, do guys prefer looks or personality? If looks, then what primarily are they interested in? If personality, then what kind of traits do they like?
As almost everyone else has already pointed out, it DOES depend on the guy. But let's take this one step at a time, shall we?
1) Initially, when a guy sees a girl, he usually notes her looks.
2)After spending time with the girl, he notices her personality, which usually determines his opinion of the person (nobody likes to date an obnoxious girl, no matter how hot she is).
Thoughts based on experience:
1) Even if the guy prefers looks, and he doesn't think you're up to par, then he is definitely not worth your time. If he doesn't like you the way you were born, then he's not going to like you for very long even if you try really hard to make yourself prettier.
2) Same as the above: if he doesn't like how you act naturally, then he's not worth it. You shouldn't have to change your personality to fit another person.
Now some advice:
1) Be natural! You were created special and unique. You may not look like a magazine cover (does anybody? I don't think so), but you are beautiful! If a guy doesn't like your natural looks, then you need to find someone who will.
2) BE NATURAL! Be yourself...do you know how tiring it can be to be a "fake" everytime you see someone, just so that they'll like you? Be honest with yourself and with the guy you like.
P.S. Please don't think I'm saying you should't wear make-up and do your hair etc.; I just meant you shouldn't have to try too hard.
P.S.S. I apologize for being longwinded ;-)
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I like it when people break it down. You know where they are going.
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