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i`m confused...for 9 months now i've been trying to get with this guy and well...i've been thinking...when i finally go out with him i'm gonna lose a lot of things. I`m not gonna have the fun of TRYING to get him...it's like i want to go out with him sooo bad...but then when i finally do-i have something to lose?...is this a normal feeling???
This is completley normal. Trust me haha i`ve felt it a lot when it comes to guys. I think you sound like the type to seeks out "hard to get guys" and the closer and closer you come to getting the guy the further and further you feel you need to push away because your afriad to get hurt. Most everyones afraid of getting hurt but i dont think its something we need to hold over ourselves and be concerned about it all the time. Just keep going for what you believe in and "follow your heart" - =] if you feel like the outcome is going to hurt you keep searching for something better, theres plenty out there and only one waiting for you. Good Luck
(Rating: 5) thanks..ur right!