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Q: this is going to be very long. I'm in love with this guy and i have been for about 8 months i would say. We have been having sex for a year now and he just thought of me as u kno-a sex friend. I'm the only one he's been having it with since we started bein together but ive had past partners,one was his really close friend,and now i've quit for him. He got me pregnate. Yes, im 2 1/2 months pregnate with his baby. And i love him. I know evry day girls say "oh i love him soo much" But this is for real. I've lied 4 him. been through court 4 him, fought girls 4 him, and gave up my boyfriend 4 him. Whenever i tell him how i feel he says "I care about u too but i`m just not ready to go out with you...i do love you and i do wanna be with you...I just can't.." or he uses diff. excuses how 'i went wit his friend he can't do that to him' WELL Y NOT?! I try avoiding him..you know, trying to make him miss me and come crawling back to me.. but that's hard to do when he's the cutest most popular guy in school with girls practically lined up. He doesn't need me. I need advice..what should i do? i know i can't make him love me back..but maybe just to have him want to be with me and understand how i feel a little more. Don't say love notes-cuz i tried...or phone calls..or long talks..i tried everything. Don't call me dumb..please!!! i`m just hopelessly in love.... =( help!


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i'm really sorry for what you're going through. i can tell you really love him. i think he's just scared, maybe because he's about to be a father. the truth is:i dont know how you feel, and the only thing i can really tell you to do is stick by his side. be there for him whenever he needs you and let him know you're there. i hope i helped you some. good luck with him and the baby.

aww thanks girl =) u probly understand a lot more than u think u do!

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Hi, my name is Kayla. Everyone has always told me i give good advice, and i really like giving advice. It makes me soo happy when i hear someone's succeeded by my advice. I will try my best to answer any questions. It's also perfectly fine to IM me when i'm on.

A little more about JuSt Me~i'm 17, i have a wonderful boyfriend of over 3 years. i love spending time with him. i also love shopping talking, rollerblading, being outdoors and listening to music. my favorite band is New Found Glory! *i LoVe RuSsElL* :)

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