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Member Since: February 6, 2005
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Last Update: February 6, 2005
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Hey, I am Leigh-Anne, I am 35 years old, a week ago me and my husband were working late, my 12 year old son was home alone, when I came home I went to his room and caught him having sex with a 17 year old girl who is a friend of the family. I was schocked. She was giving him oral sex and they immedietly stopped, please answer thanks ~Leigh-Anne (link)
This is hard, and anyone that is not a parent themselves really shouldn't be answering this question, so ignore all the rude comments that some people have posted, they have NO idea how hard it is. You need to talk to both your son and the girl together. Sit them down and explain why you are so upset. He may not understand what the big deal is. Explain to him that sex is sex, whether it's penetration or oral sex. H ecan still get diseases from oral sex, and eventually, the oral sex is going to lead to penetration. Tell him all the stresses of being a parent and ask him what he would do if he had gotten that young girl pregnant. Really, make him face reality. He DOES need to be punished. How is up to you. I know this is probably very hard for you, and I know that it's hard for a working mom to be around her son 24/7. Good Luck!
Bridgett


Rating: 5
Actually she was molesting our son. Once we had her arrested other parents came forward and it turns out she had molested several little boys.




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