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okay, i've written before about this kid brendan who i'm still in love with. (really bad) but it doesn't really look like he's interested at all. so i started going out with the kid steve who i've gone out with a million of times before. i don't like him but my best friend lucas said he's really diggin me and i should go out with him kinda to get him off his back. lol.. i know it's mean but i'd do it for him. and as you all know valentine's day is coming up and i don't know if i should break up with him now and get it done with or if i should wait a lil while after valentine's day. or would that look like i was using him. oh ya and steve is planning something really cute for valentine's day along with a couple of my girls boyfriends for all of us. so i don't know if that would be mean to dump them eaither. oh ya and im 16! (please help) xOox elise*

Well, you kinda are using him and being mean already. Soz but its true. The best thing you can do is just dump him just now. Your not being fair to him or yourself by leading him on. Just get it over with, there's no point in dragging it on for another couple of weeks. Then once you've done that, why don't you just come out right and tell brendan how you feel. Hopefully he'll feel the same. If he doesn't, I know it will hurt, but that way at least you'll know the truth and be able to start to move on instead of staying confused. I really hope everthing turns out okay for you. Good luck

Be happy

Claire xx

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(Rating: 5) i know im usin him and its mean so i think your right, im prob. breakin up with him tonight. thanks!


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