Needless to say, I'm the beast. I'm in love with this great girl (a whole long story) but she's absolutely beautiful. When I first met her, she was a loner as I was, and we connected intellectually. Now, she's a lot more popular, and is hanging out with people just as beautiful as her. She's kinda forgotten about me. I know that looks aren't everything but it is important. I'm trying to improve myself (6' 3" - was 280lbs (used to play football) and now down to 240 lbs.) I can keep losing weight but I have other defects that would require major surgery- I have a huge underbite which to fix they would have to break my upper and lower jaw to re-align it, which means taking bone out of my hip - side effects may include loss of sensation to my lips, tingling down my leg permanent- and not to mention a long time to heal). Also, I had a bad skin infection when I went abroad for a year which left my face scarred and pitted (another surgical procedure to maybe fix). So my question- how far would you go to be more acceptable to the person you love? Thanks for your help >
U have to remember looks aren't everything. But being healthy is so i would excercise and have a healthy diet. Don't get surgery becuase someone should love you for who you are not what you look like. Try talking to her and telling her how you really feel, trust me it makes a difference. And if it doesn't work out remeber theres someone else out there thinking of you not your looks but you and if you are a nice person you will find someone that really cares.
luv always, ~*Missy*~
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Thank you so much for your encouraging words.
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