I am 17, living in New England.
I have a brother (6) and a sister (11) and two parents who I get along with really well. (it's not always easy!)
I like writing poetry and music. I play piano and guitar (and a little bass). I love reading, shopping, and being stupid with my friends and my boyfriend.
I like giving advice because I love writing, connecting with people, and sharing things I've learned.
Ask me anything and I'll try and help! :-)
Some areas of expertise: long distance relationships (my boyfriend is 3 states away at college!), family stuff (I have learned how to tame parents, haha!), messy breakups, makeup tips, and anything about clothes!
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So I like this guy and Im almost 100% he's digging me back. But I need some kind of magic line to let him know it's all systems go so he can ask me out. Im old fashioned and not willing to ask a boy out so it's kind of up to him. How do I get it across that Im ready to take this friendship and turn it into something more? (link)
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If you are looking for a great, confident guy, you probably just have to wait it out. If he asks, then great. That shows that he knows there is a risk of rejection but is willing to take it because he is confident and likes you enough to take the risk.
If he doesn't ask, well...
This may seem harsh, but if he doesn't ask, you might not want to go out with him. I'm old fashioned too, and I am not interested in a guy who doesn't have the guts to take a risk and pop the question. Now, I'm not talking about a cruel game of hard-to-get, but if you give him all the signals and he's too chicken to respond; move on!
Hope you see the reasoning behind my theory and good luck!
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Thanks. I totally see your logic. Your absolutely right about him needing to risk being rejected in order to really prove he likes me. I'll keep your advice in mind. Keep up the good work!
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