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My former best friend and I have been growing apart over the last two years. Now to her I'm just someone she says hi to in the hall. It's been hard to stay in touch over the years because she is so busy and we haven't been in any of the same classes. We still consider oursleves "friends", but I wish things could go back to the way they used to be. Whenever I call her to do something with me, she always has other plans. Ever since we started fading away from being best friends I've really missed her. We had been best friends for over 4 years and we had this dream of becoming famous actresses together, and it really saddens me how apart we've grown now. I'm afraid that in a couple of years or so, we might not be friends at all. I feel like there is nothing I can do to just have us be best friends or even just good friends again, but I need to figure out something. This seems impossible since shes always so busy with her activities and her group of best friends. Can anyone help me on what to do? I rate high!
The only way to solve this problem is just to sit your friend down and tell her how you feel. If you truly want to fix your friendship then you have to be completely honest. It would also help if you asked her to not respond until you have said everything you need to say, that way it is less likely that your conversation will turn into an argument. Also, why don't you try getting to know some of her new best friends. You may find you like them and may be able to hang out with them with her, making it easier for you to see her as you will not have to separate her from her new friends first. I hope I've helped you and good luck!!
Claire xx
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