Look you need to be firm with him. You should absolutely talk to him, but I don't think it should be a one on one conversation. I think you should get him and her together and can even have your boyfriend there if you want(for support) and confront him about it. Tell him in front of her, "look you're dating one of my best friends and I am way to close to her to let you get in the way. It makes me very uncomforatble when you constantly hitting on me and making advances at me. I don't appreciate what you are doing to my friend by cheating on her and doing things behind her back. I am only going to say this once. Do not hit on me ever again. Do not flirt with me. I am not interested in you. I have a boyfriend and even if I didn't I wouldn't be interested in somebody who cheats and is disloyal like you are." That's it. If all 4 of you are together I think the message will be clear.

Under no circumstances should your boyfriend attack this guy. Violence is not the key to this situation and will only make matters worse. Just confront him and tell him how you feel and make sure your friend is there so that there are no misgivings about your intentions or what you said to him. Make sure in the dialogue you make it clear that this is half you being uncomfotable and half your being loyal to a friend you care about.

I think this should help to eleviate the problem. That's my advice.

John
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Thanks. I was mostly joking about my guy wanting to beat K up, lol, but I'm glad you took it seriously. I could've been serious...*shifty eyes* I see your point and I like your ideas. =)

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