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Q: I am dating a guy.. and hes going to a private school next year... and we really love eachother.. but the private school hes going to isolates him.. right now were not even at the same school.. hes in one highschool in our town and im in the other.. and were fine.. but next year im not even going to be able talk to him at all.. because he even has school on Saturdays.. :-/ I dont want to lose him..we have been best friends for 3 years and we have dated on and off in the past and were dating now... im afraid hes going to get over me and move on.. and i don't want him too.. i really love him alot.. and he loves me too.. but theres no way we can be together next year.. should I just get over him now and move on starting now.. or what?
sorry its so long :-/ any advice would be well appreciated.... I'll rate :)
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I read your post and didn't really find anything peculiar about it until you got to the "im afraid hes going to get over me and move on..." etc. Look you can still be friends and e-mail. But the truth about life which you are learning right now is that people are replaceable. It's just how it is. You'll go to college and you're high school friends who seem closer then family will be more distant and eventually you'll stop talking to them. When you leave college you're inseperable college friends will disappear as you get further away from college. If you move from one town to another or change jobs again it'll happen. If you get married then your whole life changes and you won't have as much time to spend with friends so only the closest remain. It's just a simple fact of life. The people whom you associate with right now you may not even talk to 10 years from now. It's just how life is. So he's going away, ah such is life. The getting over you, and all that stuff sounds a little troubling. It's not about owning another person or wanting them to feel a certain way. We have no control over others. The only person you control is you. Furthermore if you're a healthy individual you can be without anyone for a year and it's no problem. Just be yourself. Get over him now. Just be with you, it's all you need. When the right time comes whether it's him or somebody else you'll have a boyfriend in your life. Hope I was helpful. That's my advice.
John
(bobcohen5309@yahoo.com)
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Wow... that was really good advice and I understand completely but its just so hard...ya know :-(
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I am here to help you with whatever problems you have. I have traveled the world. I have mentored and sponsored people in the past. I have volunteer taught. I have worked with disabled people.
Ask, I am here for you.
Just remember it really is a beautiful world out there.
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E-mail: Gender: Male Location: Missouri Member Since: January 18, 2005 Answers: 33 Last Update: February 1, 2005 Visitors: 2810
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