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Q: ok.... well i have gone out with this guy 4 times and every time we brake up it is because of other girls!!! now he wants to go back out with me. he is always sweet and always says i love you to me. he always holds my hand and is always there for me.but the real question is ... should i go back oout with him or not? plz answer!!!
No,

A real relationship is not made up of this girl, that girl, she's hot, etc. A real relationship is a union between two people that makes both stronger. A guy who is doing what he's done to you is probably in it for the power(ego) which comes from lack of self esteem. You sound somewhat co-dependant by the mere fact that you would even ask such a question. The best thing in my opinion is to work on yourself and figure out what's best for you. Be an individual, grow for yourself. A quote from Ayn Rand, "you shouldn't say the words, I love you, until you understand the meaning of the word I." You need to figure out who you are and only then can you find the right partner for yourself.

John
(bobcohen5309@yahoo.com)

thanks a lot you have helped me the most out of everyone so far!!! email me if you want
lilflirt180@yahoo.com

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