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I love helping people. I was a psychology major in college with a minor in family and child development. I love trying to problem solve and have a way of reading between the lines. I'm in a wonderful marriage (it has taken alot of work and alot of ups and downs) and have survived several family crises. I can often speak from experience. Ask me anything, I'm here to help.
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Well I have been going out with this guy for about a month now. Well I was a a party and I wanted to go over to my old b/f's house which is a really great friend too and say hello. :P Well when I went over there I realized that he had moved. And it crushed me soo much. But I dont know why. Maybe it was cause I never got to say goodbye or I still had a thing for him. And that sux to even say that. Cause I am happy with my b/f I have now. I wanna know so bad where he went cause I would still like to keep intouch with him. But what I wanna know is that is it bad to think that I may still have a thing for him? (link)
You definitely still have a thing for him. 100%. And no, there's nothing wrong with that. But if he didn't even tell you that he had moved and where he had moved , he probably doesn't feel the same way. And I would think that a good friend would inform you that he is moving and would give you all of his new information so that you could continue to keep in touch with him.
Then there is the new boyfriend. Was he just a transitional boyfriend? I can't help but believe that if you truly love him then this whole thing wouldn't bother you so much.


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