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Q: I just want to know when it is the right time to tell him my feelings? I know deep in my heart i am in love with this man. At the same time i am scared to tell him how i feel because, i don't know how he feels about me in that way any way. I am afraid to tell him because i dont want him to get scared and leave the relationship. At the same time it is killing me not to tell him.
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First, I see a tiny problem here. Unless it's a friendship (and I'm guessing it's not), what kind of a relationship are you in that the guy's going to be "scared," or worse, "leave," if emotion gets expressed?
It sounds like already you're giving the guy a bit too much freedom if you're letting him get away with not treating your relationship seriously enough to be ready to deal with something like this. So before you go dropping the bomb, take a while to work on things with the two of you and get your relationship to the point where it's a serious issue - where the two of you are both admittedly in it for the goal of finding love. If he doesn't want to do that, then there's definitely no way he's deserving of your love (and probably doesn't feel the same way about you) and you should consider letting him go.
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You have a point. Well i am just worried that he thinks that i am not expressing my feelings. you know maybe he feels the same as i do and he may be afraid to say it. We have both had a bad expieriance in our past relationships. Thats why it is so scary to us. Thankyou for your input
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bio
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Hey, I'm Mark. I'm 18, smart, a mild smoker, usually quiet, romantic, old-fashioned, unemotional, gay, and a FY college student. I know Latin and Greek. In the summers (when I'm not hanging out with friends having crazy unhealthy amounts of fun) I've been a camp counselor for... five years now. This summer will be my sixth. I don't enjoy preaching to people, but I do enjoy giving people advice and generally helping them out, and I've been told that I'm good with it, so when I found this site, I thought I'd give it a whirl. Thanks to all who appreciate it :)
(And yes, I know that picture makes me look like a blithering idiot. Live with it. It's the only picture I have of me smiling :P)
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Gender: Male Location: Kansas City, MO Occupation: Student Age: 18 Member Since: January 17, 2005 Answers: 10 Last Update: January 19, 2005 Visitors: 2153
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