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My name is Jessica a.k.a. Gessyka

I love to talk on AIM online, and I love to hang out with friends. I teach myself how to play the keyboard and on it I can play "Fur Elise", "Heart and Soul" with both hands, and a few other songs. My birthday is March 31 1990.
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I've been through a lot of things, and I'm only 14. Some people think I have the perfect life but in reality, I DO have a lot of problems...
I've had people who passed away, crying all the time, people have told me to kill myself (sluts), I have seen people talk about suicide...I know some people who tried killing themselves, so many things that I'd rather not discuss that are pretty horrible, and a lot of other things now that are on my mind...good and bad and...*cough* puberty too...=(

Oh and I also believe in psychics, spirits (only good) and I'm a Christian Catholic.

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So Im really starting to develop a thing for a friend of mine, but it gets even worse than that. Im 18m shes 15f its not a huge difference but still. She also has a boyfriend putting me in an even tougher situation. Im also pretty sure she doesnt even think of me in anykind of romantic sense, even if she didnt have a bf. I really dont know what kind of advice to even ask for mostly im jsut venting and seeing what kind of comments/advice im gonna get. (link)

Holy crap some people were really putting you down. I don't think you're a bad person for liking a girl younger than you...because it's really not a big age difference. You will have to wait until she is older...an adult. Unless you WANT TO face statutory rape charges.

But, even if she didn't have a boyfriend and she liked you back, you should definitely wait until she's 18. That will show you respect her enough. If you stop liking her by that time, then you've moved on...but if you don't then you're free to date her as long as she's not a minor.

Good luck with that.


Rating: 5
thanks for your advice, maybe by then shell be a bit mroe mature too, one of the things thats actualy making it possible to resist her heh.




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