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hi. erf.. i cut myself and i wanted to know if there is any thing to make u stop/get ur mind off of it?? i heard that snapping rubberbands help.. but it isn't working.. help (link)
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Okay, I'm not going to tell you to stop or anything, because believe me, I've been in the same situation. You feel alone, and don't want to listen to what anyone else has to say about it. I can understand the rubberband snapping, but it still causes pain, and pain is something you can control. If you'd rather do something that won't cause you pain, then try writing. I did it. I actually wrote three notebooks full of poetry. Once my parents started reading them, and noticing my cuts, they sent me to get help. It's embarrassing to not be able to hang out with your friends because you have to go to your psyichiatrist instead of going to the mall for instance. I'm sure your family, and friends would miss you dearly if you died. But it is a proven fact that cutting is only to cause pain, it doesn't NORMALLY kill you. It's just a way to let out your emotions. Now, I'm not trying to tell you that you should hang yourself to die. Afterall, that wouldn't be giving you positive advice, at all. It would be the best if you talked to someone about this. It most definitely helped me. I don't know what exactly is going wrong, and is causing you to feel so negatively about yourself that causes you to cut your wrists, but hun, it should stop. How would you feel if say.. your parent or guardian died? Pretty upset, right? Okay.. Now imagine how they would feel... Their own child/grandchild/cousin, whatever the case. It isn't healthy. Consider putting yourself in their position.
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