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Member Since: January 6, 2005
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Last Update: January 7, 2005
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I haven't seen my mother for 9 years, I'm 14. She's been on methampthetamines my entire life. I just got word today of where she is, I talked to her about 3 years ago. I need to go see her so that I can get over the fact that she will never be my mom. I just need some advice on what to say to her, and I really want to tell her to stop doing methampthetamines. I know that I won't be able to help her, but I just need some advice on how to deal with the fact that I will never have her as my mom, and that I will never be able to help her. I know it's hard to answer, but please, if anyone can help me. The pressure is too much, I'm seeing her this weekend. Please help me. I have no one else to turn to. 14/f
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Wow. I am sorry! thats heavy stuf! well..tell her about yourslef. dont come on to strong at first because you might overwhelm her. visit her more then once. on the first visit keep it light and friendly..catch up on things. then in the next visits, you can bring in the fact that medicine is hurting her and that you feel as though you need a mother. if it doesnt seem to be working out..turn to your friends and other family member to help..sweetie its important that you dont make yourself crazy over this...remember everything happends for a reason. good luck x0x0x teddi!!


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Thanks for trying, but I think you misunderstood the question sweetie. Also, methampthetamines is not a fancy medicine, it's dope/crystal meth/whatever you want to call it.




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