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my family doesn't like my boyfriend. we both have very different backgrounds, and he does a little work in which he gets paid under the table. they think that he will hold me back from going as far as i can in life, but i know that he won't...i won't let him. we love eachother very much, and he treats me like a queen. true, he lied to me once because he was afraid to tell me about the under the table paying, but we have gotten over that and we are closer than ever now. my mom really doesn't like him, she thinks that he is completely wrong for me, and that my getting serious with him will only hurt my future. i don't know how to show mom what he's really like, especially since she doesn't even want to try to get to know the sides of him that i know. it's really hard to love someone when your family is trying to get you to break up with him. what do i do? i am completely at my wits end now. we love eachother, but it seems like my family is trying to be a part of my relationship, our relationship is a line...me and him. my family relationship is some bigger shape, we are all connected, but the line and the bigger shape, so far, aren't. not until he proposes, which he is planning to do. HELP!!!! i don't know what to do!!!

dude. You sould tell your mom how you feel. If you have already talked to her about your boyfiend, then you should jst simply put it to her that she is just going to have to put up with your boyfriend. She says that he is tying you down, whne ultimately, SHE is the one tying down our love. You shouldn't screw up your with your relationship with your mom, but you should be allowed to date any one you want.

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(Rating: 4) i know, but it's not exactly that easy....we're not just mom and daughter, we're also friends, and we're all eachother has, so it's almost like she feels she has to or sumthin.... idk, but thanks for ur advice, email me if you want, my addy's on my advice column
Kat
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