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I want to have sex with my boyfriend but he doesn't even live in my state and i love him but im only 16 and idk if he'll cheat on me if i dont have sex with him im worried he'll cheat but i love him withall my heart and i think im ready i just dont wanna get pregnant or stds...help.

I dont think it is a good idea to have sex with your boyfriend because you are only sixteen and it doesnt sound like you have a very healthy relationship since you are worried about cheating on eachother. I think that you should talk to him about having sex a lot before you actually do to make sure that you are both ready. Sex is a big thing and it shouldnt be taken lightly. If you are not absolutely positive you are ready dont do it. When you have sex make sure that you USE A GOOD CONDOM with no rips. And i would also be on the pill just to make sure that you do not get ready. Remember sex comes along with a lot of emotional stuff ... all i can say is.. make sure you are ready! &hearts

~Becki~

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