my name is cindy and i go to highland
E-mail: coolkid
Gender: Female
Location: AZ
Occupation: Actress
Age: 15
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Hey...I don't really think you can help much with this, but I'm curious to see what you think of it all. This is probably gonna be long. Sorry.
Okay. My boyfriend and I are really close in every way. We love each other completely, and we're technically engaged. The only thing is...he'd told me he was staying here for college, but then he went on a trip with his family to see the rest of their family this break, and all of a sudden decided he wants to go there for college. That would be a four year separation, maybe more, and I don't know how to handle it. He went away this summer for 2 months and it, like, killed me. I can't imagine not seeing him for a year. We're not going to break up or anything, and I'm not going to try to make him stay (though I'd like to) because he'd resent me, I'm sure, if I did. I don't want to make him stay here for me, but he's planning to go to tech school. Can't he just stay here? I would go with him, but there are absolutely no good vocal programs where he's planning to go, and I already got accepted into a college here that does. (I'm doing vocal performance as my major).
Anyway...I don't know what to do. I almost don't want to talk to him about it because I'll end up crying and making him feel bad, then feeling bad about making him feel bad. Lol. Plus, I hate for him to see me cry.
So...anything to say? (link)
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okay!i no thats a really hard thing to have to do so here is what i have to say..Try telling him how much you really want him to stay..also...you seem the age that u will be choosing a college also so maybe you should go with him...if that doesnt work then allways visit him!!
DB
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I can't go with him, I mentioned that the state he's looking at has absolutely no vocal program, which is what I'm majoring in. Please READ questions instead of skimming them. You miss little details like that, I've done it too. But thank you for your advice. I really appreciate that you took time to answer my question. =)
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