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Hey...I don't really think you can help much with this, but I'm curious to see what you think of it all. This is probably gonna be long. Sorry.
Okay. My boyfriend and I are really close in every way. We love each other completely, and we're technically engaged. The only thing is...he'd told me he was staying here for college, but then he went on a trip with his family to see the rest of their family this break, and all of a sudden decided he wants to go there for college. That would be a four year separation, maybe more, and I don't know how to handle it. He went away this summer for 2 months and it, like, killed me. I can't imagine not seeing him for a year. We're not going to break up or anything, and I'm not going to try to make him stay (though I'd like to) because he'd resent me, I'm sure, if I did. I don't want to make him stay here for me, but he's planning to go to tech school. Can't he just stay here? I would go with him, but there are absolutely no good vocal programs where he's planning to go, and I already got accepted into a college here that does. (I'm doing vocal performance as my major).
Anyway...I don't know what to do. I almost don't want to talk to him about it because I'll end up crying and making him feel bad, then feeling bad about making him feel bad. Lol. Plus, I hate for him to see me cry.
So...anything to say? (link)
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Coming from a long distance relationship myself, I can understand your concern. The thing of it is, it's relatively easy. You'll be able to talk on the phone, write letters, and maybe visit sometimes.
If you love him then just talking to him should be able to ease your mind a bit.
Stay strong, it'll all work out.
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I'm so glad you can sympathize, lol. Talking to him does ease my mind, but his presence eases the rest of me. >.< I had nightmares when he was gone this summer, and they stopped when he came back. Sucky. I'd better start a dream journal again, then...Lol. Thanks for your advice. =)
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