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Q: so. my best friend introduced me to a guy she dated about a year ago.He ended up falling for me, and then he got me to fall for him. and..we were in love. Seriously. The feeling is just to hard to explain. We basically did everying except sex, and oral sex. I look back on it, and it makes my skin crawl. So, he ended it with me about a month ago, and he let me down pretty hard. It hurt so bad, but then I found out what an ass hole he was. (He cheated on my best friend) I'm finally over him, but the problem is, sometimes, when I'm alone I can't stop thinking about him, and it makes my cry so hard. I just can't forget how he made me feel. I hate it because I'm dating someone else now, who is so great, and treats me so much better. I feel unfaithful almost. What can I do to forget him!? I'm 15, and a girl...obviously. Rarr! I can't handle this!
dont worry about it.. that means you were in love with him. love isnt the easiest thing to over come trust me on this lol. you're not being unfaithful. you're being reminded of your past. but you need to focus on the future now that you have a good boyfriend. you're gonna need to try to forget him... i no its not gonna work all the way.. but like but all the things he gave you in a box, block his screen name.. things like that. and pay attention to your current boyfriend. its great that you're in a great relashionship now! focus on this!. and when ever you start remembering him. have a good cry, because youll be reminded of all that he made you cry and that hes not worth it. if u need any further help.. my sn is lxl ali lxl x3 *hope i helped* love alwaiiz, aLi *feed back is greatly appreciated!*

thanks so much!!! that was really a big encouragement! it made me smile!!!

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