Member Since: December 27, 2004
Answers: 5
Last Update: December 27, 2004
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i found the perfect guy for me. i'm a christian girl, and he's a youth leader, we have the same sense of humor, he's totaly cute, and he's the sweetest guy i've ever met. the problem is that he's quite a bit older than me, and by the time i'm old enough to date him, he'll probably be married, because, well who wouldn't want to marry him? see, i'm only 14, and he's 20, but i think he likes me a little too. i'll find out for sure by tomarrow if he does, and add it on here. but he told me i was beautiful and stuff, so what should i do?
thanx for helping, i rate all 5's.
xoxo
sincerely,
Puppy Love (link)
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It is very common for people to "fall in love" with teacher-figures...he's your youth pastor, right? And you're both Christians? You probably like the fact that he's a good Christian leader and is teaching you things that you really can apply to your life..however..getting in anything beyond a just friends relationship would be dangerous-for you, and for your youth pastor. You are under 18, and he is above it, meaning that this can be illegal! If the police found out, or if someone in the church found out, it would risk his reputation and his job! You, on the other hand, are still so young! You guys have such an enormous age difference..this guy isn't a teenager anymore, and he has a job! You, on the other hand, are either in middle or school or just starting high school. You guys won't be able to relate about much because you are at such different times of your life! Also, dating this guy risks you losing your good reputation or ending up with a broken heart. If you find out he likes you, please politely decline anything he asks you to do that could break the law.
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Rating: 5
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i wasn't going to start a relationship with him, until i turn 18. i just wanted to find out if he liked me or not so that he could wait for me. that's all. thanx.
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