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Ok..this may be long..I go to school (I'm in 8th grade) like everyone else and I hang out w/ my little group consisting of 6 people including myself. Well, one of the girls is completley attatched to me even though she is annoying and I don't want to be her friend. Well she invites herself over and does w/e she pleases and my mom does not like her or her family at all! Well how do I turn her down in a nice way and move away slowly? (that's just my first problem) Then there is another girl that I absolutley adore! We are just getting close b/c my first friend talks bad about her constanly I never wanted to be friends with her...well anyway I want to be her friend and be close with her but not the immature childish one...any suggestions on how to solve this? Thanks alot!

You shouldn't reject your friend! But you certainly can move away from her. When she invites you over, don't make excuses, just say you can't make it. If she asks why and how about another day, say I'll have to check back with you. If she simply brings herself into your house, then say your in the middle of something and can't play now. If she lures you into coming over, escape and no matter what, don't give in. And about her family, maybe it's time to stop sending the old Christmas card, and giving a friendly hello. And tell your friend at lunch when she sits with you, say I was planning on sitting with another girl, if you don't mind. (referring to the girl you want to get close to) and have her over, and share your interests, but not jump inot things. I hope everything works out

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(Rating: 3) I never "rejected" her and we don't give her parents the frendly hello and christmas cards
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