I recently ran into a guy who I have known since we were little kids.It's been a long time since we've seen each other,and I always had a crush on him when we were young,and I didn't wanna let myself feel it again but when we ran into each other it brought back all those feelings.Anyway,my BFF,tho I love her,she...well,sleeps around a lot,and she right away started saying how hot this guy is and how much she wanted to *get* with him.I asked her to please not do anything with him because I do still like him,and it would hurt my feelings a lot.She said she can't guarantee that she couldn't do it,and that she's "taking a chance" with him.Basically,she's gonna go 4 it anyway.She says he told her he couldn't date me because it's me(meaning we go back so far as friends and our families were real tight).And she tells me he asked if it was ok if he called HER sometime.But when we were all hangin together he was acting interested in me and seemed...less than amused or interested by her.It's breaking my heart that she's gonna do this.The thought of them together makes me sick to my stomach.I've had nightmares,been unable to sit still,felt sick to my stomach,all because I'm so upset over this.But she says she basically doesn't care,and that she's not gonna fight and I can "take it how I want".What should I do? Even the mere idea that he would be into her is mind boggling to me,and especially cuz he really wasn't all actin like that,he kept huggin me and talkin about old times,and he even talked to my mom on the phone for God's sake!And the idea that he would ever be into her makes me feel sick.I cried all night last night and all morning this morning. HELP!!Thanks,I'll rate ya!
Well, ok if this guy doesn't want to go out with you because he always known you as family and just nothing more than a friend or best friend then I would agree with him and just get over him and find someone new like they say *there's more than one out there*! :) But if your friend says she can't garauntee that she won't hurt your feelings then that's not a true friend either becuase 1) I would ~Never~ do that to one of my friends nor would they do that to me 2) You deserve to be treated better most likely because you sound sweet and all. But you do need to get over him because first of all if you and your friend and him are hanging out and he *Finally* notices you that means that he needs someone there to show off that he can get you. That's my advice to you. Talk to your friend once more and if she don't listen screw her *Not litterally* haha but yeah and get over that guy. Becuase if he really cared or had feelings for you then he wouldn't be all up in your bestfriends shit ya know? Well hope i helped good luck :)!!
Shannon
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Thanks so much!You sound so sweet!And he wasn't into my best friend,he was acting quite the opposite,and turns out he didn't call her.She called me today to tell me to "take him if I want him that bad",w/e that means!
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