Hey everyone!! Well where should i start? Well my name is Chelsey, i live in Connecticut. Ever since i was a little kid i was sort of the person that everone runs to and tell them their problem, and they knew that i would never tell anyone. Also I have a lot of experiance in helping people i am a Peer Mediator in my school and i have been one for 4 years now. I have heard probably every problem that you can imagine from little things to very very dangerous issues. I can't really say some of the things that i have herd because that would braking my code of confidentiallity but i'll tell you some of the things that i have been through. Well I have delt with a lot of love issues from boyfriends to even your family neglecting you from love. For example my Father was a great dad when i was younger but what happened is my parents got divorced because my Father used to abuse my Mother and my Mother knew that she had to get out of the relationship for me because she didn't want me to grow up to that and think that it was a healthy relationship. So at first he was a perfect dad like he was when he was married to my mom but soon he became a deadbeat father never paying child support and never caring about me. He became a criminal which is in prison right now. Well yeah thats all i'm really going to say about that. I have also had a whole lot of experiance with self injury because i used to inflict injuries on myself (a.k.a i used to be a cutter). Also i have had a lot of friends in the past that used to cut and i have helped them all quit because i have helped them through it but i didn't make them top i gave them the comfidence to make themselfs stop. Because i have always said you can never make anyone do anything you can only suggest things and try to make it happen. Only them can have the power to make themself do something. I also know a lot about abuse because my Mother used to be abused by my Father, her Mother and her Brother. And she has told me all about it. Also one of my close friends has been abused by her Father. I know a lot about friendships too and how to make them better. Well thats all i have to say but i am excited to be giving everyone advice soon!!! Lots of Luck to everyone but making their lives better!!
Lots of love xox,
Chel
Gender: Female
Location: Branford
Age: 16
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okay theres this guy that likes me.. and i used to like him. I sit with him evryday at lunch. Hes so controlling. I cant stand it anymore. All my friends say i should ask him out or he should ask me but i cant stand him anymore.!! Seriously. He really bugs me!! i turn my cell phone off just so i dont have to talk to him at night. He asks whats wrong with my phone, i tell him i couldnt talk anyways or that my older sister was using my phone and it went dead. That was true Wednesday Night tho. Yesterday in the note he rote me.. he told me.. "Dotn make any plans for Saturday night. We're doing something. What we're doing i dont know.. but"
See i cant put up with that anymore.
What can i do?
Please help me...
Christine (link)
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You should really talk to him because if he finds out that you've been lying to him he's probally going to get a little upset or dissapointed that you can't tell him the truth i know it might be hard but you should do it.
~!GOOD LUCK~!
~!Chelly!~
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