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I been having a lot of problems latley!!!! well i've been cutting because well my best friend started going out with the guy i relle relle loved, even though she loves him to i didn't want her to go out with him but she did and i'm happy for her and all but i wish i was his girlfriend instead and this boy he is our relle good friend we can depend our lives on him! i luv him and he luvs me just he only wants me as a friond so i've been cutting but the thing is my best friend found out and she didn't tell any1 but i thought that the boy relle should know because he's a big partr of this and now they kno and i feel so ashamed that i cut i want to stop causei don't want them unhapy and i don't want any1 to find out but i rele do want to keep doing it cause it helps me!!!!!

Thanx,

~lost lover~

NO NO NO. It doesn't really help you. Think about it. Your cutting your flesh, hurting yourself, how is that going to make anything better? I know it's hard, but you can't run away from your problems, you can't go the easy way out. You have to be strong, not only for your friends, but for you. You sound like your young too, and trust me, there are going to be many many guys in your life, one broken heart, is just the beginning. You have to learn how to deal with your problems. Always be around people that love you and care about you. Try to spend more time hanging out with friends, and just having fun! Please, you have to be strong!!! There are more fish in the sea. A good idea to do, is to stay away from this guy and have no contact with him, until your sure your over him, Because if you see him and talk to him all the time, it's going to be a lot worse on you. Give yourself time. Life is tough, everyone's been in your position at one point or the other. Guys are not worth hurting yourself over!!! Having a broken heart sucks, no one likes it. ~good luck~

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(Rating: 1) you made me feel even worse about myself then i did be4 u kno i'm trying!!!!!!!
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