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Q: im sort of taking everyones advice.. everyone told me to talk to him and i did.. and he told me to wait for him.. and i tried doing that.. but im finally letting him go.. im changing my life now.. im letting more and more go.. and im just being more open with people.. i realized that i shouldnt just be there when he needs me.. and maybe i was moving to fast.. so now im just letting go.. and im actually happy.. im meeting a lot of new people.. and he is now telling me that he wants to go out with me.. but i dont want to.. cause im having fun right now.. im living my life the way i want to.. now how do i tell him that im not into him anymore.. i mean ive told him.. but i think that he thinks im lying.. and ive told him.. and ive told him millions of times.. and he doesnt seem to understand.. and its like im having new guy friends.. and most of them are starting to like me.. i mean its kool that one or two of them like me.. but man.. im kind of not used to this.. i know it might sound weird.. but im not really wanting all of this attention.. i mean yea i changed.. but i didnt change myself for everyone to talk to me.. like they do now.. i feel like im losing some people this way.. and im gaining others.. so i guess im asking more then one question...
how do i tell the guy that i really dont want to go out with him?? and get him to really understand??
how do i get all of the new guys to stop likeing me.. without telling them to stop liking me??
should i be happy that im getting new friends?? but then at the same time losing old ones??
and anything else that is in that.. please help..
okay well this is a tuffy...
you should be happy that your getting new guy friends! but i can tell taht it can get annoying, just try not to talk to them as much. I mean, dont ignore them, just talk to them less.Because the less you talk to them the more the'll have less contact wit you and maybe the more they'll stop likeing you. Worth a shot! (= well i really dont understand why your loosing old friends. Oh yeah and about the guy, tell him something like this (I still want to be your friend, im not kidding, im serious, listen to me now. I want to still be your friend, but im afraid to say taht i've moved on and i cant wait around for you anymore. I dont like you anymore. Sorry" (not that same way, but similar). i really hope i could help.. this was a real tuffy.
=) later

thanks for the advice.. but like in a way i dont want to stop talking to them.. i have fun with them

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